Welcome Back (2024-2025 School Year)

Welcome Back (2024-2025 School Year)

We all know the importance of spending time in the Word.  We need to act on what we know.

We all know:

2 Timothy 3:16-17 NLT
16 All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. 17 God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

Hebrews 4:12 NLT
12 For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires.

  • The Word of God is alive and powerful. It is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives.
  • God uses scripture to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

This morning, I want us to focus on a phrase found in Hosea chapter 4.

Hosea 4:6 NLT
My people are being destroyed
because they don’t know me. …

 This verse communicates a powerful message to all of us who are living in the 21st century. 

My people are being destroyed because they don’t know me.

 These are God’s words directed to his chosen people, the Israelites.

These words certainly apply to the 21st century church.

  • God’s people are being destroyed because they do not know God.
  • The next generation will be destroyed if they do not know God.

Hosea 4:6 NLT
My people are being destroyed
because they don’t know me. …

As parents and teachers we have an incredibly important and challenging, and at times seemingly overwhelming, God given assignment.

Proverbs 22:6 (KJV) starts out by saying:
Train up a child in the way he should go:

Proverbs 22:6 NLT
Direct your children onto the right path,
and when they are older, they will not leave it.
 

  • Train up a child in the way he should go.

Where do we start?

Scripture tells us:

Proverbs 1:7 NLT
Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true knowledge,
but fools despise wisdom and discipline.

ESV The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.

Scripture also says:

Mark 12:30-31 NLT
30 And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.’ 31 The second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ No other commandment is greater than these.” 

We need to:

  • Create an atmosphere where children have the opportunity to “fear the Lord”.
  • All of us here have a part in this ministry.

We are One body with many parts.

1 Corinthians 12:18 NLT
18 But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where he wants it.

  • God has put each one of you just where He wants you.

Look at:

1 Corinthians 3:6-9 NLT
I planted the seed in your hearts, and Apollos watered it, but it was God who made it grow. It’s not important who does the planting, or who does the watering. What’s important is that God makes the seed grow. The one who plants and the one who waters work together with the same purpose. And both will be rewarded for their own hard work. For we are both God’s workers. And you are God’s field. You are God’s building. 

  • Some of us plant the seed, some of us waters the seed, but what’s important is that God makes the seed grow.

Hosea 4:6 NLT
My people are being destroyed
because they don’t know me. …

God’s people are being destroyed because they do not know God.

The next generation will be destroyed if they do not know God.

You can be used by God in this ministry.

Acts 4:13 NLT
13 The members of the council were amazed when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, for they could see that they were ordinary men with no special training in the Scriptures. 

They also recognized them as men who had been with Jesus. (More on this later.) 

  • God uses ordinary people with no special training in the scriptures.
  • God is equipping each one of us for this ministry.
  • Resources available to each of us here today include the Holy Spirit and the Scriptures.

The Holy Spirit

Acts 1:8 NLT (A promise to the apostles)
But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you. And you will be my witnesses, telling people about me everywhere—in Jerusalem, throughout Judea, in Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” 

John 14:26 NLT
26 But when the Father sends the Advocate as my representative—that is, the Holy Spirit—he will teach you everything and will remind you of everything I have told you.

Acts 2:38 NLT
38 Peter replied, “Each of you must repent of your sins and turn to God, and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. Then you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
 39 This promise is to you, to your children, and to those far away—all who have been called by the Lord our God.”

(Baptism is an act of obedience, not a requirement for salvation.)

John 3:16 NLT
16 “For this is how God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life.

Romans 10:9 NLT
If you openly declare that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.

Romans 8:9-11 NLT
But you are not controlled by your sinful nature. You are controlled by the Spirit if you have the Spirit of God living in you. (And remember that those who do not have the Spirit of Christ living in them do not belong to him at all.) 10 And Christ lives within you, so even though your body will die because of sin, the Spirit gives you life because you have been made right with God. 11 The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ Jesus from the dead, he will give life to your mortal bodies by this same Spirit living within you. 

  • The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. 

God has given us the gift of the Holy Spirit.  He also gave us:

The scriptures.

2 Timothy 3:16-17 NLT
16 All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. 17 God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

Hebrews 4:12 NLT
12 For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires.

The Word of God is alive and powerful.  It is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives.

God uses scripture to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

What happens when we spend time in the Word?

2 Peter 1:2-4 (NLT)
May God give you more and more grace and peace as you grow in your knowledge of God and Jesus our Lord.
By his divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory and excellence. And because of his glory and excellence, he has given us great and precious promises. These are the promises that enable you to share his divine nature and escape the world’s corruption caused by human desires. 

  • Knowing God better should be a number one priority in our lives.
  • As we come to know God better, God is giving us everything we need for living a Godly life.
  • As we learn to know God’s promises, we are able to share his divine nature and escape the world’s corruption caused by human desires.

Acts 4:20 NLT
20 We cannot stop telling about everything we have seen and heard.”

We are all

Changed lives changing lives.

 

Hosea 4:6 NLT
My people are being destroyed
because they don’t know me. …

God’s people are being destroyed because they do not know God.

The next generation will be destroyed if they do not know God.

 

 

 

Shine Brightly for Christ (Part 2)

Shine Brightly for Christ (Part 2)

Introduction:

Remember: Your faithful service is an offering to God.

Philippians 2:14-18 NLT
Shine Brightly for Christ (Part 2)
14 Do everything without complaining and arguing, 15 so that no one can criticize you. Live clean, innocent lives as children of God, shining like bright lights in a world full of crooked and perverse people. 16 Hold firmly to the word of life; then, on the day of Christ’s return, I will be proud that I did not run the race in vain and that my work was not useless. 17 But I will rejoice even if I lose my life, pouring it out like a liquid offering to God, just like your faithful service is an offering to God. And I want all of you to share that joy. 18 Yes, you should rejoice, and I will share your joy.

Examine the Scriptures:

Philippians 2:14-18 NLT
Shine Brightly for Christ (Part 2) 

14 Do everything without complaining and arguing, 

More specific instructions for Christians.

Here Paul is speaking to the church at Philippi, but the same principles would apply to us.

Do everything

Without complaining.

No complaining.

No muttering or grumbling.

Complaining about our circumstances could be seen as a contradiction to recognizing God as sovereign and all powerful.

Without arguing

No arguing.

No disputing.

No questioning.

No criticisms.

  • Do everything without complaining and arguing.

2 Timothy 2:23 NLT
23 Again I say, don’t get involved in foolish, ignorant arguments that only start fights. 

Titus 3:9 NLT
Do not get involved in foolish discussions about spiritual pedigrees or in quarrels and fights about obedience to Jewish laws. These things are useless and a waste of time.

Complaining and arguing should not be a part of our lives.

Jude 16 NLT
16 These people are grumblers and complainers, living only to satisfy their desires.

  • Complaining and arguing arise from self-centeredness.

Replace complaining and arguing with:

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NLT
16 Always be joyful. 17 Never stop praying. 18 Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus. 

Philippians 4:8 NLT (Later in Paul’s letter)
And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.

  • Always be joyful. Never stop praying.  Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus. 

15 so that no one can criticize you.

  • It’s hard to have an effective testimony for Christ when you are always arguing with the people around you.

Philippians 2:2 NLT
Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose. 

  • Christians need to show themselves as united and as one in Christ. 

Live clean, innocent lives as children of God,

Become blameless and pure … without fault. (NIV)

Not perfection, but whole hearted devotion to doing God’s will.

Above reproach – undiluted, not weakened.

(Don’t be like wine that has been diluted or metal that has been weakened)

Romans 14:13 NLT
13 …. Decide instead to live in such a way that you will not cause another believer to stumble and fall.

  • Relate to others in such a way that you do not cause them to stumble.

Go back to Paul’s prayer (1:9-11)

Philippians 1:9-10 NLT
I pray that your love will overflow more and more, and that you will keep on growing in knowledge and understanding. 10 For I want you to understand what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ’s return.

Progress in your spiritual maturity.

  • Keep on growing in knowledge and understanding.

Matthew 10:16 NLT
16 “Look, I (Jesus) am sending you out as sheep among wolves. So be as shrewd as snakes and harmless as doves. 

shining like bright lights in a world full of crooked and perverse people. 

Matthew 5:14-16 NLT
14 “You are the light of the world—like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. 15 No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father.

Ephesians 5:8 NLT
For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light

John 8:12 NLT
12 Jesus spoke to the people once more and said, “I am the light of the world. If you follow me, you won’t have to walk in darkness, because you will have the light that leads to life.

This little light of mine, I’m going to let it shine.

We too are living in a world full of crooked, unscrupulous, and perverse people.

For the most part, our nation has turned it back on God and on Biblical principles.

  • We should shine as lights in a world full of crooked and perverse people. 

16 Hold firmly to the word of life;

Believing God’s Word and following it.

2 Timothy 3:16-17 NLT
16 All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. 17 God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

Hold forth. Share God’s Word with the lost and the dying.

John 6:68 NLT
68 Simon Peter replied, “Lord, to whom would we go? You have the words that give eternal life.

  • Believe God’s Word and follow it.
  • Share God’s Word with the lost and the dying. 

then, on the day of Christ’s return, I will be proud that I did not run the race in vain and that my work was not useless. 

3 John 4 NLT
I could have no greater joy than to hear that my children are following the truth.

2 Timothy 4:7 NLT
I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, and I have remained faithful.

  • I could have no greater joy than to hear that my children are following the truth. 

17 But I will rejoice even if I lose my life, pouring it out like a liquid offering to God,

Pouring out wine onto the altar or onto the ground.

Illustrating a life “poured out” for God’s service.

2 Timothy 4:6 NLT
As for me (Paul), my life has already been poured out as an offering to God. The time of my death is near. 

Just like your faithful service is an offering to God.

Romans 12:1 NLT
12:1 And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. 

The Philippians’ faithful service is an offering to God.

Genuine faith is active and working.

Faithful service is hard work.

Philippians 2:12 NLT … Work hard to show the results of your salvation … 

  • Our faithful service is an offering to God.

1 Corinthians 15:58 NLT
58 So, my dear brothers and sisters, be strong and immovable. Always work enthusiastically for the Lord, for you know that nothing you do for the Lord is ever useless. 

And I want all of you to share that joy. 

  • Share in the joy of serving the Lord. 

18 Yes, you should rejoice, and I will share your joy. 

Philippians 4:4 NLT
Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again—rejoice!

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!  (NIV)

The Murder of Ishbosheth

The Murder of Ishbosheth

Introduction:

In this lesson the nation of Israel is falling apart.  Its leadership is gone and the nation is on the verge of civil war.

In following lessons, we will see how God uses David to restore Israel and Judah back into one nation.

2 Samuel 4:1-12 NLT
The Murder of Ishbosheth
4:1 When Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, heard about Abner’s death at Hebron, he lost all courage, and all Israel became paralyzed with fear. Now there were two brothers, Baanah and Recab, who were captains of Ishbosheth’s raiding parties. They were sons of Rimmon, a member of the tribe of Benjamin who lived in Beeroth. The town of Beeroth is now part of Benjamin’s territory because the original people of Beeroth fled to Gittaim, where they still live as foreigners.
(Saul’s son Jonathan had a son named Mephibosheth, who was crippled as a child. He was five years old when the report came from Jezreel that Saul and Jonathan had been killed in battle. When the child’s nurse heard the news, she picked him up and fled. But as she hurried away, she dropped him, and he became crippled.)
One day Recab and Baanah, the sons of Rimmon from Beeroth, went to Ishbosheth’s house around noon as he was taking his midday rest. The doorkeeper, who had been sifting wheat, became drowsy and fell asleep. So Recab and Baanah slipped past her. They went into the house and found Ishbosheth sleeping on his bed. They struck and killed him and cut off his head. Then, taking his head with them, they fled across the Jordan Valley through the night. When they arrived at Hebron, they presented Ishbosheth’s head to David. “Look!” they exclaimed to the king. “Here is the head of Ishbosheth, the son of your enemy Saul who tried to kill you. Today the Lord has given my lord the king revenge on Saul and his entire family!”
But David said to Recab and Baanah, “The Lord, who saves me from all my enemies, is my witness. 10 Someone once told me, ‘Saul is dead,’ thinking he was bringing me good news. But I seized him and killed him at Ziklag. That’s the reward I gave him for his news! 11 How much more should I reward evil men who have killed an innocent man in his own house and on his own bed? Shouldn’t I hold you responsible for his blood and rid the earth of you?”
12 So David ordered his young men to kill them, and they did. They cut off their hands and feet and hung their bodies beside the pool in Hebron. Then they took Ishbosheth’s head and buried it in Abner’s tomb in Hebron.

Examine the Scriptures

2 Samuel 4:1-12 NLT
The Murder of Ishbosheth 

4:1 When Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, heard about Abner’s death at Hebron, he lost all courage,

Ishbosheth was very much aware of his dependence on Abner.

Abner, the commander of Ishbosheth’s army, had become a powerful leader among those loyal to Saul.

Abner was the one who put Ishbosheth on the throne and was the one whose power held him there.

Abner’s true power was evident in Ishbosheth’s reaction to his death.

Ishbosheth was simply a figurehead.

  • Abner had been the source of strength and stability for Israel.

and all Israel became paralyzed with fear. 

A civil war between Israel and Judah was a reality and Israel was now without strong leadership.

  • The news of Abner’s death caused all of Israel to become paralyzed with fear.

Now there were two brothers, Baanah and Recab, who were captains of Ishbosheth’s raiding parties. They were sons of Rimmon, a member of the tribe of Benjamin who lived in Beeroth.

These two Benjamite men were captains of Ishbosheth’s raiding parties.

Baanah and Recab were from the tribe of Benjamin.

Saul was from the tribe of Benjamin.

Even after Saul’s death, the tribe of Benjamin remained faithful to Saul’s house.

  • People could mistakenly assume that Baanah and Recab would be loyal to Saul’s family.

This is evidence of friction within the house of Saul. 

The town of Beeroth is now part of Benjamin’s territory because the original people of Beeroth (Gibeonites/Canaanites) fled to Gittaim, where they still live as foreigners.

Beeroth: One of the Gibeonite cities assigned to Benjamin.

Who were the Gibeonites?

These were the people who tricked Joshua into making as treaty with them. (Joshua 9)

Saul did not honor the treaty Joshua had made with the Gibeonites and tried to annihilate them. (2 Samuel 21)

The Gibeonites fled to Gittaim.

Israelites moved into the city of Beeroth, located in Benjamin near Gibeon, after the original citizens had fled to Gittaim.

Don’t you wonder why this is included in the scriptures? 

A story within a story. 

(Saul’s son Jonathan had a son named Mephibosheth, who was crippled as a child. He was five years old when the report came from Jezreel that Saul and Jonathan had been killed in battle. When the child’s nurse heard the news, she picked him up and fled. But as she hurried away, she dropped him, and he became crippled.) 

Mephibosheth was too young (12 years old) to rule

and

his physical condition made it impossible for him to provide military leadership.

The following may or may not apply.

It most likely influence the people’s thinking.

Leviticus 21:16-21 NLT
16 Then the Lord said to Moses, 17 “Give the following instructions to Aaron: In all future generations, none of your descendants who has any defect will qualify to offer food to his God. 18 No one who has a defect qualifies, whether he is blind, lame, disfigured, deformed, 19 or has a broken foot or arm, 20 or is hunchbacked or dwarfed, or has a defective eye, or skin sores or scabs, or damaged testicles. 21 No descendant of Aaron who has a defect may approach the altar to present special gifts to the Lord. Since he has a defect, he may not approach the altar to offer food to his God.

  • With the death of Ishbosheth there was no other viable claimant to the throne from the house of Saul. (From the NIV Study Bible)
  • Saul’s dynasty was unable to continue-the only other heir was a young child who was crippled. (From the NLT Study Bible)

2 Samuel 9:1 NLT
9:1 One day David asked, “Is anyone in Saul’s family still alive—anyone to whom I can show kindness for Jonathan’s sake?” 

3 … “Yes, one of Jonathan’s sons is still alive. He is crippled in both feet.”…

See also the comments after verse 7.

Saul’s sons, Jonathan, Ishbosheth (Esh-baal), Abinadab, and Malki-Shua (Malkishua) are dead.

(Saul did have two other sons from one of his concubines Rizpah (3:7 and 21:8-14)) 

One day Recab and Baanah, the sons of Rimmon from Beeroth, went to Ishbosheth’s house around noon as he was taking his midday rest.

2 Samuel 2:10 NLT
10 Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, was forty years old when he became king, and he ruled from Mahanaim for two years. Meanwhile, the people of Judah remained loyal to David.

Since Recab and Baanah were from Benjamin they would appear to be loyal to the family of Saul. 

The doorkeeper, who had been sifting wheat, became drowsy and fell asleep. So Recab and Baanah slipped past her. They went into the house and found Ishbosheth sleeping on his bed. They struck and killed him and cut off his head.

  • Recab and Baanah assassinate Ishbosheth.
  • Israel now has no king.

Saul’s sons, Jonathan, Ishbosheth (Esh-baal), Abinadab, and Malki-Shua (Malkishua) are dead.

(Saul did have two other sons from one of his concubines Rizpah (3:7 and 21:8-14))

Also, the commander of Israel’s army, Abner, had been murdered. (verse 1)

See also the comments after verse 4. 

Then, taking his head with them, they fled across the Jordan Valley through the night. 

The distance from Mahanaim to Hebron could have been close to 45 miles. ??? 

When they arrived at Hebron, they presented Ishbosheth’s head to David. “Look!” they exclaimed to the king. “Here is the head of Ishbosheth, the son of your enemy Saul who tried to kill you.

David did not refer to Saul as his enemy.

David repeatedly referred to Saul as the Lord’s anointed one.

  • Recab and Baanah presented Ishbosheth’s head to David.

Today the Lord has given my lord the king revenge on Saul and his entire family!”

  • These two men believed that David would welcome this news and reward them for their actions.

But David said to Recab and Baanah, “The Lord, who saves me from all my enemies, is my witness. 10 Someone once told me, ‘Saul is dead,’ thinking he was bringing me good news.

But I seized him and killed him at Ziklag. That’s the reward I gave him for his news! 11 How much more should I reward evil men who have killed an innocent man in his own house and on his own bed? Shouldn’t I hold you responsible for his blood and rid the earth of you?”

Saul was wounded in battle and would have been killed by the enemy.

Ishbosheth’s death was outright murder.

  • David saw this as an unjustified assault on a defenseless man.
  • David states that these men deserve the death penalty for killing Ishbosheth.

12 So David ordered his young men to kill them, and they did. They cut off their hands and feet and hung their bodies beside the pool in Hebron.

Note David’s inconsistency in his dealings with Ish-bosheth’s murderers and Abner’s murderer (David’s nephew Joab).

Genesis 9:5 NLT
“And I (God) will require the blood of anyone who takes another person’s life. If a wild animal kills a person, it must die. And anyone who murders a fellow human must die.

This was also a public testimony of David’s innocence in Ishbosheth’s death.

Like in our previous lesson:

David was very careful to let everyone know that Abner’s murder was Joab’s doing and not his.

If it had been David’s doing, he would have lost the support of the northern tribes.

Then they took Ishbosheth’s head and buried it in Abner’s tomb in Hebron.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Joab Murders Abner

Joab Murders Abner

Introduction:

Joab is an example of an individual following the desires of his sinful nature.

The sinful nature wants to do evil … Galatians 5:17 NLT

Note the destructive forces of sin in this story.

2 Samuel 3:22-39 NLT
Joab Murders Abner
22 But just after David had sent Abner away in safety, Joab and some of David’s troops returned from a raid, bringing much plunder with them. 23 When Joab arrived, he was told that Abner had just been there visiting the king and had been sent away in safety.
24 Joab rushed to the king and demanded, “What have you done? What do you mean by letting Abner get away? 25 You know perfectly well that he came to spy on you and find out everything you’re doing!”
26 Joab then left David and sent messengers to catch up with Abner, asking him to return. They found him at the well of Sirah and brought him back, though David knew nothing about it. 27 When Abner arrived back at Hebron, Joab took him aside at the gateway as if to speak with him privately. But then he stabbed Abner in the stomach and killed him in revenge for killing his brother Asahel.
28 When David heard about it, he declared, “I vow by the Lord that I and my kingdom are forever innocent of this crime against Abner son of Ner. 29 Joab and his family are the guilty ones. May the family of Joab be cursed in every generation with a man who has open sores or leprosy or who walks on crutches or dies by the sword or begs for food!”
30 So Joab and his brother Abishai killed Abner because Abner had killed their brother Asahel at the battle of Gibeon.

David Mourns Abner’s Death

31 Then David said to Joab and all those who were with him, “Tear your clothes and put on burlap. Mourn for Abner.” And King David himself walked behind the procession to the grave. 32 They buried Abner in Hebron, and the king and all the people wept at his graveside. 33 Then the king sang this funeral song for Abner:
“Should Abner have died as fools die?
34 Your hands were not bound;
your feet were not chained.
No, you were murdered—
the victim of a wicked plot.”
All the people wept again for Abner. 35 David had refused to eat anything on the day of the funeral, and now everyone begged him to eat. But David had made a vow, saying, “May God strike me and even kill me if I eat anything before sundown.”
36 This pleased the people very much. In fact, everything the king did pleased them! 37 So everyone in Judah and all Israel understood that David was not responsible for Abner’s murder.
38 Then King David said to his officials, “Don’t you realize that a great commander has fallen today in Israel? 39 And even though I am the anointed king, these two sons of Zeruiah—Joab and Abishai—are too strong for me to control. So may the Lord repay these evil men for their evil deeds.”

Examine the Scriptures

2 Samuel 3:22-39 NLT
Joab Murders Abner 

22 But just after David had sent Abner away in safety,

Previous lesson:

2 Samuel 3:20-21
20 When Abner and twenty of his men came to Hebron, David entertained them with a great feast. 21 Then Abner said to David, “Let me go and call an assembly of all Israel to support my lord the king. They will make a covenant with you to make you their king, and you will rule over everything your heart desires.” So David sent Abner safely on his way.

  • David was at peace with Abner and now treated him as a friend and ally.

Joab and some of David’s troops returned from a raid, bringing much plunder with them. 

Remember: Joab was the commander of David’s army.

No details of this raid are given.  We do know, however, this is what armies did routinely.

2 Samuel 11:1 NLT
11:1 In the spring of the year, when kings normally go out to war, David sent Joab and the Israelite army to fight ….

1 Chronicles 20:1 NLT
20:1 In the spring of the year, when kings normally go out to war, Joab led the Israelite army in successful attacks … 

23 When Joab arrived, he was told that Abner had just been there visiting the king and had been sent away in safety. 

24 Joab rushed to the king and demanded, “What have you done? What do you mean by letting Abner get away? 

  • Joab was upset when he found out that David had entertained Abner with a great feast.

2 Samuel 3:20 NLT
20 When Abner and twenty of his men came to Hebron, David entertained them with a great feast.

Joab would have viewed Abner as the enemy.

Abner was the rival commander-in-chief.

Joab wanted revenge (verse 27) not reconciliation.

Joab was upset when he found out that David had entertained Abner with a great feast.

In addition to wanting revenge for the death of his brother, Joab appears to be jealous of the attention Abner was getting from David.

(If it wasn’t jealousy, it was one of the sins listed in Galatians 5:19-21.)

Jealousy (sin) is a serious and destructive problem.

James 3:16 NLT
16 For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and evil of every kind.

Proverbs 14:30 NLT
30 A peaceful heart leads to a healthy body;
jealousy is like cancer in the bones.

Proverbs 27:4 LT
Anger is cruel, and wrath is like a flood,
but jealousy is even more dangerous.
 

25 You know perfectly well that he came to spy on you

Many translations say:

came to deceive you

  • Joab accused Abner of deception. 

and find out everything you’re doing!”

Joab accused Abner of being a spy.

  • Joab tries to discredit Abner in David’s eyes. 

26 Joab then left David and sent messengers to catch up with Abner, asking him to return. They found him at the well of Sirah

Sirah is about 2.5 miles north of Hebron. ???  Precise location of the well is unknown. 

and brought him back,

Joab is being deceptive. 

though David knew nothing about it 

(This will be addressed in more detail later in this lesson.) 

27 When Abner arrived back at Hebron, Joab took him aside at the gateway as if to speak with him privately.

  • Joab deceived Abner (refer to verse 25). 

But then he stabbed Abner in the stomach and killed him in revenge for killing his brother Asahel.

Remember: Joab and Asahel were brothers.

1 Chronicles 2:13-16 NLT
13 Jesse’s … seventh was David.
16 Their sisters were named Zeruiah and Abigail. Zeruiah had three sons named Abishai, Joab, and Asahel.

Abishai was a part of this plot.

In verse 30 we read:  So Joab and his brother Abishai killed Abner.

Reasons for Joab to dislike Abner included:

Abner was the rival commander-in-chief,
Abner was highly respected (cf. v. 38).
Abner was a threat to Joab’s career advancement,
Abner had killed his brother, Asahel, in battle (v. 30).

These are all possible reasons for Joab’s jealousy.

Joab was a murderer. His killing of Abner was the result of a blood feud; it was not an act of war. (blood vengeance)

Abner had killed Asahel in the course of battle.

  • Joab killed Abner in revenge for killing his brother Asahel.

Romans 12:19 NLT
19 Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say,
“I will take revenge;
I will pay them back,”
says the Lord.

Note:  (This may or may not apply here.)

Hebron was a city of refuge

Joshua 21:13 NLT
13 The following towns with their pasturelands were given to the descendants of Aaron the priest: Hebron (a city of refuge for those who accidentally killed someone), 

2 Samuel 2:22 NLT
22 Again Abner shouted to him, “Get away from here! I don’t want to kill you. How could I ever face your brother Joab again?”

Where such revenge was not permitted. 

28 When David heard about it, he declared, “I vow by the Lord that I and my kingdom are forever innocent of this crime against Abner son of Ner. 

  • David was very careful to let everyone know that Abner’s murder was Joab’s doing and not his.

If it had been David’s doing, he would have lost the support of the northern tribes. 

29 Joab and his family are the guilty ones. May the family of Joab be cursed in every generation with a man who has open sores or leprosy or who walks on crutches or dies by the sword or begs for food!”

Remember, Joab was a nephew of David.

  • David cursed Joab, but at this point in time Joab was not punished for murdering Abner.

30 So Joab and his brother Abishai killed Abner because Abner had killed their brother Asahel at the battle of Gibeon.

David Mourns Abner’s Death

  • David cursed Joab (his nephew) and mourns for Abner (a former adversary).

31 Then David said to Joab and all those who were with him,

“Tear your clothes and put on burlap. Mourn for Abner.”

  • Joab was compelled, by David, to join the mourners. 

And King David himself walked behind the procession to the grave. 

Note: The writer refers to David as “King David”.

David’s public presence in the mourning procession communicated to the public that he respected Abner and had not ordered Abner’s killing.

32 They buried Abner in Hebron,

This was another indication that Abner had shifted his support from Saul to David.

 and the king and all the people wept at his graveside. 

33 Then the king sang this funeral song for Abner:

“Should Abner have died as fools die?

Abner had been deceived by Joab, an enemy posing as a friend.

34 Your hands were not bound;
your feet were not chained.
No, you were murdered—
the victim of a wicked plot.”

A seasoned warrior became the victim of a wicked plot.

David’s compassion and forgiving spirit toward Abner are evident here, qualities that separated him from most other men.

  • David’s funeral song reflected his respect for Abner. 

All the people wept again for Abner. 35 David had refused to eat anything on the day of the funeral, and now everyone begged him to eat. But David had made a vow, saying, “May God strike me and even kill me if I eat anything before sundown.” 

36 This pleased the people very much. In fact, everything the king did pleased them! 37 So everyone in Judah and all Israel understood that David was not responsible for Abner’s murder. 

  • Judah and Israel were gradually coming back together, 

38 Then King David said to his officials, “Don’t you realize that a great commander has fallen today in Israel? 

Here again David shows high respect for Abner. 

39 And even though I am the anointed king, these two sons of Zeruiah—Joab and Abishai—are too strong for me to control.

  • David admits that Joab and Abishai are too strong for his to control.

We know from previous lessons that in the northern kingdom Abner, the commander of Ishbosheth’s army, was more powerful than Ishbosheth the king.

In the same way, David, the king of Judah, had, at times, difficulty controlling Joab, the commander of his army.

Joab was a brave, competent, and skilled military leader.
Joab won many key battles for David.
Joab was able to influence David’s decisions.
At times Joab acted in his own interest.
At times Joab disregarded David’s orders.
At times Juab’s actions were ruthless.
At times David was unable to control Joab. 

So may the Lord repay these evil men for their evil deeds.”

Even though David felt that he could not control Joab, he had faith that God would repay Joab for killing Abner. 

Note:

Joab is still in the picture when David is on his deathbed.

David’s final instructions to Solomon.

1 Kings 2:5-6 NLT
“And there is something else. You know what Joab son of Zeruiah did to me when he murdered my two army commanders, Abner son of Ner and Amasa son of Jether. He pretended that it was an act of war, but it was done in a time of peace, staining his belt and sandals with innocent blood. Do with him what you think best, but don’t let him grow old and go to his grave in peace.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Shine Brightly for Christ (Part 1)

Shine Brightly for Christ

Philippians 2:12-18 NLT
12 Dear friends, you always followed my instructions when I was with you. And now that I am away, it is even more important. Work hard to show the results of your salvation, obeying God with deep reverence and fear. 13 For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him.

Examine the Scriptures:

Philippians 2:12-13 NLT
Shine Brightly for Christ 

12 Dear friends, you always followed my instructions when I was with you. And now that I am away, it is even more important.

Note: We aren’t really talking about Paul’s instructions. 2 Timothy was written by Paul, but notice what it says.

2 Timothy 3:16-17 NLT
16 All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. 17 God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

We are not really talking about Paul’s instructions.  We’re talking about instructions from God. 

(repeat) And now that I am away, it is even more important. 

What is more important?

Let’s look at another passage recorded by Paul.

Ephesians 6:5-8 NLT
Slaves, obey your earthly masters with deep respect and fear. Serve them sincerely as you would serve Christ. Try to please them all the time, not just when they are watching you. As slaves of Christ, do the will of God with all your heart. Work with enthusiasm, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. Remember that the Lord will reward each one of us for the good we do, whether we are slaves or free.

  • As slaves of Christ, do the will of God with all your heart. Work with enthusiasm, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people.

The word “work” is going to show up a lot in this lesson.

Who are you working for?  Who are you trying to please? 

Work hard to show the results of your salvation, 

work out your own salvation ESV 

Keep on working to complete your salvation.  International Children’s Bible

Work with fear and trembling. CEV + others

This is not working for salvation.  The Philippians had already received the gift of salvation.

This is talking about an ongoing process that continues after receiving the gift of salvation. 

*** “work out” means continually work to bring your salvation to fulfillment.

  • Sanctification is an ongoing process which will not be complete or reach perfection in this life.

Sanctification is the process of becoming more Christ like.

In “progressive sanctification” we have a part to play.

We work out our salvation by keeping in step with the Holy Spirit who leads us in the will of God.

Ephesians 4:1 NLT
4:1 Therefore I, a prisoner for serving the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of your calling, for you have been called by God.

Galatians 5:16 NLT
16 So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves.

2 Peter 1:10 NLT
10 So, dear brothers and sisters, work hard to prove that you really are among those God has called and chosen.

Galatians 6:7-9 NLT
Don’t be misled—you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant. Those who live only to satisfy their own sinful nature will harvest decay and death from that sinful nature. But those who live to please the Spirit will harvest everlasting life from the Spirit. So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.

Romans 6:19 NLT
19 Because of the weakness of your human nature, I am using the illustration of slavery to help you understand all this. Previously, you let yourselves be slaves to impurity and lawlessness, which led ever deeper into sin. Now you must give yourselves to be slaves to righteous living so that you will become holy.

2 Corinthians 7:1 NLT
7:1 Because we have these promises, dear friends, let us cleanse ourselves from everything that can defile our body or spirit. And let us work toward complete holiness because we fear God.

Hebrews 6:10-11 NLT
10 For God is not unjust. He will not forget how hard you have worked for him and how you have shown your love to him by caring for other believers, as you still do. 11 Our great desire is that you will keep on loving others as long as life lasts, in order to make certain that what you hope for will come true.

  • Living the life that God wants you to live takes hard work.

Working at Redeemer Day School is hard work. 

obeying God

Obey.  Do the things scripture tells believers to do.

John 14:15 NLT
15 “If you love me, obey my commandments. 

1 John 5:3 NLT
Loving God means keeping his commandments, and his commandments are not burdensome. 

James 1:22 NLT
22 But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves.

John 14:21 NLT
21 Those who accept my commandments and obey them are the ones who love me. And because they love me, my Father will love them. And I will love them and reveal myself to each of them.”

2 John 6 NLT
Love means doing what God has commanded us,

Luke 11:28 NLT
28 Jesus replied, “But even more blessed are all who hear the word of God and put it into practice.” 

  • Don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says.

Don’t get hung up on the passages of scripture you don’t understand.  You already know a lot of scripture.  Do what you know you should be doing.

Example:

Put verses 2 and 3 into practice (achieving unity through humility).

Philippians 2:3-4 NLT
Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. 

with deep reverence and fear. 

We need to have a healthy fear of offending God and a righteous awe and respect of Him.

Proverbs 1:7 NLT
Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true knowledge,
but fools despise wisdom and discipline.

Deuteronomy 8:6 NIV
Observe the commands of the Lord your God, walking in obedience to him and revering him.

Psalm 34:9 NIV
Fear the Lord, you his holy people,
for those who fear him lack nothing.

Proverbs 9:10 NLT
10 Fear of the Lord is the foundation of wisdom.
Knowledge of the Holy One results in good judgment.

We have a strong and crafty adversary, and we are weak and dependent on God for all that we need. 

  • Fear of the Lord is the foundation of wisdom.

We need to be practicing and teaching “respect”.

Practicing respect is becoming a lost art.

Fearing God is respecting God.  We need to always honor and esteem God.

Can we do all of this on our own?  Of course not. 

13 For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him.

  • God empowers and energizes believer’s lives.

2 Peter 1:3 NLT
By his divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory and excellence. 

John 15:5 NLT
“Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.

1 Corinthians 12:6 NLT
God works in different ways, but it is the same God who does the work in all of us.

  • Among other things, God uses scripture and the Holy Spirit to work in us.

Hebrews 4:12 NLT
For the word of God is alive and powerful.

John 16:13 NLT
13 When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all truth. 

Abner Joins Forces with David

Abner Joins Forces with David

Previous lesson:

A disastrous civil war. (A war between citizens of the same country.)

Abner was the commander of Ishbosheth’s army.

Joab was the commander of David’s army.

David’s real rival in the North was Abner, not Ishbosheth.

Abner knew David from the time David had killed Goliath.

Abner knew Joab, Abishai, and Asahel well.

We ended our previous lesson with both armies calling for a truce and going back to their hometowns.

Today’s lesson.

Abner Joins Forces with David (Remember, Abner was the commander of Ishbosheth’s army.)

2 Samuel 3:1-21 NLT
3:1 That was the beginning of a long war between those who were loyal to Saul and those loyal to David. As time passed David became stronger and stronger, while Saul’s dynasty became weaker and weaker.
David’s Sons Born in Hebron
These are the sons who were born to David in Hebron:
The oldest was Amnon, whose mother was Ahinoam from Jezreel.
The second was Daniel, whose mother was Abigail, the widow of Nabal from Carmel.
The third was Absalom, whose mother was Maacah, the daughter of Talmai, king of Geshur.
The fourth was Adonijah, whose mother was Haggith.
The fifth was Shephatiah, whose mother was Abital.
The sixth was Ithream, whose mother was Eglah, David’s wife.
These sons were all born to David in Hebron.
Abner Joins Forces with David
As the war between the house of Saul and the house of David went on, Abner became a powerful leader among those loyal to Saul. One day Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, accused Abner of sleeping with one of his father’s concubines, a woman named Rizpah, daughter of Aiah.
Abner was furious. “Am I some Judean dog to be kicked around like this?” he shouted. “After all I have done for your father, Saul, and his family and friends by not handing you over to David, is this my reward—that you find fault with me about this woman? May God strike me and even kill me if I don’t do everything I can to help David get what the Lord has promised him! 10 I’m going to take Saul’s kingdom and give it to David. I will establish the throne of David over Israel as well as Judah, all the way from Dan in the north to Beersheba in the south.” 11 Ishbosheth didn’t dare say another word because he was afraid of what Abner might do.
12 Then Abner sent messengers to David, saying, “Doesn’t the entire land belong to you? Make a solemn pact with me, and I will help turn over all of Israel to you.”
13 “All right,” David replied, “but I will not negotiate with you unless you bring back my wife Michal, Saul’s daughter, when you come.”
14 David then sent this message to Ishbosheth, Saul’s son: “Give me back my wife Michal, for I bought her with the lives of 100 Philistines.”
15 So Ishbosheth took Michal away from her husband, Palti son of Laish. 16 Palti followed along behind her as far as Bahurim, weeping as he went. Then Abner told him, “Go back home!” So Palti returned.17 Meanwhile, Abner had consulted with the elders of Israel. “For some time now,” he told them, “you have wanted to make David your king. 18 Now is the time! For the Lord has said, ‘I have chosen David to save my people Israel from the hands of the Philistines and from all their other enemies.’” 19 Abner also spoke with the men of Benjamin. Then he went to Hebron to tell David that all the people of Israel and Benjamin had agreed to support him.
20 When Abner and twenty of his men came to Hebron, David entertained them with a great feast. 21 Then Abner said to David, “Let me go and call an assembly of all Israel to support my lord the king. They will make a covenant with you to make you their king, and you will rule over everything your heart desires.” So David sent Abner safely on his way.

Examine the Scriptures

2 Samuel 3:1-21 NLT

3:1 That was the beginning of a long war between those who were loyal to Saul and those loyal to David.

  • A long war began between those who were loyal to Saul and those loyal to David.

The truce called by Joab and Abner was short-lived.

2 Samuel 2:26-28 NLT
26 Abner shouted down to Joab, “Must we always be killing each other? Don’t you realize that bitterness is the only result? When will you call off your men from chasing their Israelite brothers?”
27 Then Joab said, “God only knows what would have happened if you hadn’t spoken, for we would have chased you all night if necessary.” 28 So Joab blew the ram’s horn, and his men stopped chasing the troops of Israel.

The civil war occurred during the time David was the ruler of Judah (This civil war lasted between 2-7 years).

The supporters of Saul’s family wanted to limit David’s reign to Judah.

Those of David’s dynasty were convinced that it was time for David to become the ruler of the entire nation of Israel. 

As time passed David became stronger and stronger, while Saul’s dynasty became weaker and weaker.

  • As time passed David became stronger and stronger, while Saul’s dynasty became weaker and weaker.
  • One way David’s dynasty became stronger was by David marrying more wives and having more sons.

David’s Sons Born in Hebron

These are the sons who were born to David in Hebron:
The oldest was Amnon, whose mother was Ahinoam from Jezreel.
The second was Daniel, whose mother was Abigail, the widow of Nabal from Carmel.

Daniel is Kilead in Hebrew.

Chileab is the name used in many translations. 

The third was Absalom, whose mother was Maacah, the daughter of Talmai, king of Geshur.

Geshur is a small Canaanite Kingdom located east of the Jordan River, north of the Sea of Galilee.

Talmai, king of Geshur, would be an ally to David on Ishbosheth’ northern border.

Marrying into neighboring royal families to create political alliances was a common practice in the ancient Near East.

Solomon carried out this practice and it led to his downfall.

  • Marrying into neighboring royal families to create political alliances was a common practice in the ancient Near East.

The fourth was Adonijah, whose mother was Haggith.
The fifth was Shephatiah, whose mother was Abital.
The sixth was Ithream, whose mother was Eglah, David’s wife.
These sons were all born to David in Hebron.

More about these sons in future lessons.

Abner Joins Forces with David

As the war between the house of Saul and the house of David went on, Abner became a powerful leader among those loyal to Saul. 

Abner, the commander of Ishbosheth’s army, became a powerful leader among those loyal to Saul.

Abner was the one who put Ishbosheth on the throne and whose power held him there.

Ishbosheth was simply a figurehead.

  • As time passed Abner began to make his own move to take the throne.

See verse 10:
I’m going to take Saul’s kingdom and give it to David.

One day Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, accused Abner of sleeping with one of his father’s concubines, a woman named Rizpah, daughter of Aiah.

  • Conflict breaks out between Ishbosheth and Abner. (This won’t be good for Ishbosheth.)

Great significance was attached to taking the concubine of a former king.

It is unclear whether Abner actually did so.

Taking a king’s wife or concubine was often a usurper’s attempt to replace the king.

Going in to the king’s concubine was a statement of power and rightful claim to the throne.

If a royal concubine had a son, this son, according to custom, could become king one day.

This could be considered an act of treason (attempting to overthrow the government).

This happened with ten of David’s concubines and David’s son Absalom.

2 Samuel 16:21 NLT Ahithophel Advises Absalom
21 Ahithophel told him, “Go and sleep with your father’s concubines, for he has left them here to look after the palace. Then all Israel will know that you have insulted your father beyond hope of reconciliation, and they will throw their support to you.”

  • Going in to the king’s concubine was a statement of power and rightful claim to the throne.

Abner was furious. “Am I some Judean dog to be kicked around like this?” he shouted. “After all I have done for your father, Saul, and his family and friends by not handing you over to David, is this my reward—that you find fault with me about this woman? 

Abner was furious with Ishbosheth.

Remember, Abner had control over the life and death of Saul’s son.

  • Abner was furious with Ishbosheth. 

May God strike me and even kill me if I don’t do everything I can to help David get what the Lord has promised him! 

  • It is clear that Abner had “political” ambitions. He wasn’t about to let Ishbosheth get in his way.
  • Abner was aware of God’s plan for David.

If Abner was aware of God’s plans for David, then many other people throughout Israel also must have known it.

1 Samuel 13:13-14 NLT
13 “How foolish!” Samuel exclaimed (to Saul). “You have not kept the command the Lord your God gave you. Had you kept it, the Lord would have established your kingdom over Israel forever. 14 But now your kingdom must end, for the Lord has sought out a man after his own heart. The Lord has already appointed him to be the leader of his people, because you have not kept the Lord’s command.”

  • Abner was committing himself to help David become the King of all of Israel. 

10 I’m going to take Saul’s kingdom and give it to David. I will establish the throne of David over Israel as well as Judah, all the way from Dan in the north to Beersheba in the south.” 

Abner was a very powerful man.  (As stated before, Abner was the real power in the Northern kingdom.)

Abner was committing to help establish the throne of David over Israel as well as Judah.

This sounds like God’s plan for David. 

11 Ishbosheth didn’t dare say another word because he was afraid of what Abner might do.

Ishbosheth knew that Abner was the real power behind the throne.

Ishbosheth did not dare go against Abner’s wishes. 

12 Then Abner sent messengers to David, saying, “Doesn’t the entire land belong to you? Make a solemn pact with me, and I will help turn over all of Israel to you.”

Being aware of God’s plan for David, Abner was setting himself up for a leadership position in David’s kingdom.

  • Abner wants assurance that he will not face reprisals for his past loyalty to the house of Saul.

Abner wanted to be on the winning side and to be honored as the one who brought all the people under David’s rule. 

13 “All right,” David replied, “but I will not negotiate with you unless you bring back my wife Michal, Saul’s daughter, when you come.”

David demanded that Abner restore, as a sign of his good faith, his long-separated wife, Michal to him.

14 David then sent this message to Ishbosheth, Saul’s son: “Give me back my wife Michal, for I bought her with the lives of 100 Philistines.”

  • David felt that Michal legally belonged to him since he had paid the “bride price” for her.
  • David wanted Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, not Abner to give Michal back to David. This would make the act more official.
  • Also, in the minds of the people (the northern elders), the reunion of David and Michal would strengthen David’s claim to the throne as a legitimate son-in-law of Saul. 

15 So Ishbosheth took Michal away from her husband, Palti son of Laish. 16 Palti followed along behind her as far as Bahurim, weeping as he went. Then Abner told him, “Go back home!” So Palti returned. 

17 Meanwhile, Abner had consulted with the elders of Israel. “For some time now,” he told them, “you have wanted to make David your king. 

More political maneuvers on the part of Abner.

  • Apparently, the elders of Israel had begun supporting the idea of making David king over Israel.

(There has been no mention of this support up to this time.)

18 Now is the time! For the Lord has said, ‘I have chosen David to save my people Israel from the hands of the Philistines and from all their other enemies.’” 

By this time, it appears that Samuel’s anointing of David had become common knowledge.

Saul had failed to save the Israelites from the Philistines.

1 Samuel 9:16 NLT
16 “About this time tomorrow I will send you a man from the land of Benjamin. Anoint him to be the leader of my people, Israel. He will rescue them from the Philistines, for I have looked down on my people in mercy and have heard their cry.”

  • Abner was actively advocating the idea of David becoming the rightful king over all of Israel. 

19 Abner also spoke with the men of Benjamin.

The men of Benjamin, men from Saul’s own tribe, would have been Ishbosheth’s primary supporters.

  • Abner persuaded the men of Benjamin that the rule of David over them was in their best interest. 

Then he went to Hebron to tell David that all the people of Israel and Benjamin had agreed to support him. 

20 When Abner and twenty of his men came to Hebron, David entertained them with a great feast.

  • David was at peace with Abner and now treated him as a friend and ally.

Remember: Abner and David knew each other from the time David had killed Goliath.

 21 Then Abner said to David, “Let me go and call an assembly of all Israel to support my lord the king. They will make a covenant with you to make you their king, and you will rule over everything your heart desires.”

This covenant would unite the north and south with David as their king.

So David sent Abner safely on his way.

War between Israel and Judah

War between Israel and Judah

Introduction:

A disastrous civil war.

2 Samuel 2:12-32 NLT
12 One day Abner led Ishbosheth’s troops from Mahanaim to Gibeon. 13 About the same time, Joab son of Zeruiah led David’s troops out and met them at the pool of Gibeon. The two groups sat down there, facing each other from opposite sides of the pool.
14 Then Abner suggested to Joab, “Let’s have a few of our warriors fight hand to hand here in front of us.”
“All right,” Joab agreed. 15 So twelve men were chosen to fight from each side—twelve men of Benjamin representing Ishbosheth son of Saul, and twelve representing David. 16 Each one grabbed his opponent by the hair and thrust his sword into the other’s side so that all of them died. So this place at Gibeon has been known ever since as the Field of Swords.
17 A fierce battle followed that day, and Abner and the men of Israel were defeated by the forces of David.

The Death of Asahel
18 Joab, Abishai, and Asahel—the three sons of Zeruiah—were among David’s forces that day. Asahel could run like a gazelle, 19 and he began chasing Abner. He pursued him relentlessly, not stopping for anything. 20 When Abner looked back and saw him coming, he called out, “Is that you, Asahel?”
“Yes, it is,” he replied.
21 “Go fight someone else!” Abner warned. “Take on one of the younger men, and strip him of his weapons.” But Asahel kept right on chasing Abner.
22 Again Abner shouted to him, “Get away from here! I don’t want to kill you. How could I ever face your brother Joab again?”
23 But Asahel refused to turn back, so Abner thrust the butt end of his spear through Asahel’s stomach, and the spear came out through his back. He stumbled to the ground and died there. And everyone who came by that spot stopped and stood still when they saw Asahel lying there.
24 When Joab and Abishai found out what had happened, they set out after Abner. The sun was just going down as they arrived at the hill of Ammah near Giah, along the road to the wilderness of Gibeon. 25 Abner’s troops from the tribe of Benjamin regrouped there at the top of the hill to take a stand.
26 Abner shouted down to Joab, “Must we always be killing each other? Don’t you realize that bitterness is the only result? When will you call off your men from chasing their Israelite brothers?”
27 Then Joab said, “God only knows what would have happened if you hadn’t spoken, for we would have chased you all night if necessary.” 28 So Joab blew the ram’s horn, and his men stopped chasing the troops of Israel.
29 All that night Abner and his men retreated through the Jordan Valley. They crossed the Jordan River, traveling all through the morning, and didn’t stop until they arrived at Mahanaim.
30 Meanwhile, Joab and his men also returned home. When Joab counted his casualties, he discovered that only 19 men were missing in addition to Asahel. 31 But 360 of Abner’s men had been killed, all from the tribe of Benjamin. 32 Joab and his men took Asahel’s body to Bethlehem and buried him there in his father’s tomb. Then they traveled all night and reached Hebron at daybreak.

Examine the Scriptures

2 Samuel 2:12-32 NLT
War between Israel and Judah (Civil war) 

12 One day Abner led Ishbosheth’s troops from Mahanaim to Gibeon. 

Refer to map 

Abner had been the commander of Saul’s army.

Abner had proclaimed Ishbosheth king over the northern portion of Israel.

Abner was now the commander of Ishbosheth’s army.

David’s real rival in the North was Abner, not Ishbosheth.

Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, was forty years old when he became king, and he ruled from Mahanaim for two years.

2 Samuel 2:8-10 NLT
But Abner son of Ner, the commander of Saul’s army, had already gone to Mahanaim with Saul’s son Ishbosheth. There he proclaimed Ishbosheth king over Gilead, Jezreel, Ephraim, Benjamin, the land of the Ashurites, and all the rest of Israel.
10 Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, was forty years old when he became king, and he ruled from Mahanaim for two years. Meanwhile, the people of Judah remained loyal to David.

  • Abner was the commander of Ishbosheth’s army.
  • David’s real rival in the North was Abner, not Ishbosheth. 

13 About the same time, Joab son of Zeruiah

Here Joab, son of Zeruiah, is introduced into this story for the first time.

Zeruiah was David’s sister, so Joab was David’s nephew.

1 Chronicles 2:13-16 NLT
13 Jesse’s … seventh was David.
16 Their sisters were named Zeruiah and Abigail. Zeruiah had three sons named Abishai, Joab, and Asahel.

Joab is the commander of David’s army. (2 Samuel 8:16)

Joab was a competent but ruthless military leader.

At times David was unable to control Joab.

We will learn more about Joab in future lessons.

  • Joab was the commander of David’s army. 

(Joab son of Zeruiah) led David’s troops out and met them at the pool of Gibeon.

Gibeon

Located in the tribal area of Benjamin.

A key city in Benjamin.

Saul and his family were members of the tribe of Benjamin.

The Philistines did not occupy Gibeon.

The pool of Gibeon.

37 feet in diameter. 35 feet deep.  This cylindrical cutting had a circular staircase that led to a stepped tunnel that continued downward another 45 feet below the pool’s floor to a water chamber.

The two groups sat down there, facing each other from opposite sides of the pool.

The two sides were talking.

  • The two armies met at Gibeon to determine who would be Israel’s leader. 

14 Then Abner suggested to Joab, “Let’s have a few of our warriors fight hand to hand here in front of us.”

A custom often referred to as champion warfare.

A contest of champions.

Example:
1 Samuel 17:8-9 NLT
Goliath stood and shouted a taunt across to the Israelites. “Why are you all coming out to fight?” he called. “I am the Philistine champion, but you are only the servants of Saul. Choose one man to come down here and fight me! If he kills me, then we will be your slaves. But if I kill him, you will be our slaves! 

  • Abner suggested a “contest of champions” to determine who would control the nation. 

“All right,” Joab agreed. 15 So twelve men were chosen to fight from each side—twelve men of Benjamin representing Ishbosheth son of Saul, and twelve representing David. 

The talks led to fighting.

16 Each one grabbed his opponent by the hair and thrust his sword into the other’s side so that all of them died. So this place at Gibeon has been known ever since as the Field of Swords.

In theory this may have been a good idea, but in this case it did not work and nothing was resolved. 

17 A fierce battle followed that day, and Abner and the men of Israel were defeated by the forces of David.

The fighting led to battle.

A full scaled battle took place.

The casualty count of this battle is recorded in verses 30 and 31.

  • A fierce battle followed that day, and Abner and the men of Israel were defeated by the forces of David.

The Death of Asahel 

18 Joab, Abishai, and Asahel—the three sons of Zeruiah—

Zeruiah was David’s sister.

Her three sons were David’s nephews. (we’re talking family)

were among David’s forces that day. Asahel could run like a gazelle, 

Asahel was one of David’s thirty mighty warriors.  (2 Samuel 23:24 and 1 Chronicles 11:26). 

(Asahel could run like a gazelle,) 19 and he began chasing Abner. He pursued him relentlessly, not stopping for anything. 20 When Abner looked back and saw him coming, he called out, “Is that you, Asahel?”

  • Abner knew Joab, Abishai, and Asahel well.

Abner met David after David killed Goliath.

Go back to 1 Samuel:

1 Samuel 17:55-57 NLT
55 As Saul watched David go out to fight the Philistine, he asked Abner, the commander of his army, “Abner, whose son is this young man?”
“I really don’t know,” Abner declared.
56 “Well, find out who he is!” the king told him.
57 As soon as David returned from killing Goliath, Abner brought him to Saul with the Philistine’s head still in his hand.

  • Abner knew David from the time David had killed Goliath.

“Yes, it is,” he replied. 

21 “Go fight someone else!” Abner warned. “Take on one of the younger men, and strip him of his weapons.” But Asahel kept right on chasing Abner.

Obviously Abner was an experienced warrior.

  • Abner did not want to kill Asahel. 

22 Again Abner shouted to him, “Get away from here! I don’t want to kill you. How could I ever face your brother Joab again?”

Abner knew that if he killed Asahel, the hostility between him and Joab would be intensified.

David’s forces would seek revenge.

A civil war could destroy the nation. 

23 But Asahel refused to turn back, so Abner thrust the butt end of his spear through Asahel’s stomach, and the spear came out through his back. He stumbled to the ground and died there. And everyone who came by that spot stopped and stood still when they saw Asahel lying there. 

24 When Joab and Abishai found out what had happened, they set out after Abner.  (This was predictable.)

  • After Asahel was killed by Abner, Joab and Abishai, the two brothers of Asahel, wanting to revenge the death of their brother set out after Abner. 

The sun was just going down as they arrived at the hill of Ammah near Giah, along the road to the wilderness of Gibeon. 25 Abner’s troops from the tribe of Benjamin regrouped there at the top of the hill to take a stand.

If another battle took place, it would lead to more killing.

26 Abner shouted down to Joab, “Must we always be killing each other? Don’t you realize that bitterness is the only result? When will you call off your men from chasing their Israelite brothers?”

  • Abner realized the awful consequences of a civil war.

27 Then Joab said, “God only knows what would have happened if you hadn’t spoken, for we would have chased you all night if necessary.” 

  • Joab honored Abner’s appeal, thus preventing more soldiers being killed.

28 So Joab blew the ram’s horn, and his men stopped chasing the troops of Israel.

Bringing this battle to an end.

  • This battle was ended, but the hostility continued.

2 Samuel 3:1 NLT
3:1 That was the beginning of a long war between those who were loyal to Saul and those loyal to David. As time passed David became stronger and stronger, while Saul’s dynasty became weaker and weaker.

29 All that night Abner and his men retreated through the Jordan Valley. They crossed the Jordan River, traveling all through the morning, and didn’t stop until they arrived at Mahanaim.

30 Meanwhile, Joab and his men also returned home. (Hebron)

  • Abner and his men returned to Mahanaim. Joab and his men also returned to their homes in Judah.

When Joab counted his casualties, he discovered that only 19 men were missing in addition to Asahel.  (19 + 1 = 20) 31 But 360 of Abner’s men had been killed, all from the tribe of Benjamin. 32 Joab and his men took Asahel’s body to Bethlehem and buried him there in his father’s tomb. Then they traveled all night and reached Hebron at daybreak.

David lost 20 soldiers.  Abner lost 360 soldiers.

Have the Attitude of Christ (Part 2)

Have the Attitude of Christ (Part 2)

Living the Christian Life

Chapter 2:1-11
Live lives that are united in thought and purpose with other believers and dress yourselves in humility as you relate to one another.

Verses 5-11
Christ is the supreme example of humility and selfless concern for others.

  • Christ is the supreme example of humility and selfless concern for others.

Philippians 2:5-11 NLT
Have the Attitude of Christ (Part 2)
You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.
Though he was God,
he did not think of equality with God
as something to cling to.
Instead, he gave up his divine privileges;
he took the humble position of a slave
and was born as a human being.
When he appeared in human form,
    he humbled himself in obedience to God
and died a criminal’s death on a cross.
Therefore, God elevated him to the place of highest honor
and gave him the name above all other names,
10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
11 and every tongue declare that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.

 Examine the scriptures:

Philippians 2:5-11 NLT
Have the Attitude of Christ (Part 2)

From the previous passage:

Let there be no divisions in the church.

Rather, be of one mind, united in thought and purpose. V. 2

United in self-sacrificing love and humility. V. 2

Looking out for the interests of others. V. 4

Paul goes on to say:

You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.

  • Christians are to have Christ’s attitude of self-sacrificing humility and love for others.

Christ is the supreme example of humility and selfless concern for others.

  • Jesus tells us to follow his example.

John 13:12-15 NLT
12 After washing their feet, he put on his robe again and sat down and asked, “Do you understand what I was doing? 13 You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and you are right, because that’s what I am. 14 And since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. 15 I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you.

Jesus prays for unity among believers.

The Prayer of Jesus
John 17
“My prayer is not for the world, but for those you have given me, because they belong to you. 10 All who are mine belong to you, and you have given them to me, so they bring me glory. 11 Now I am departing from the world; they are staying in this world, but I am coming to you. Holy Father, you have given me your name; now protect them by the power of your name so that they will be united just as we are.
20 “I am praying not only for these disciples but also for all who will ever believe in me through their message. 21 I pray that they will all be one, just as you and I are one—as you are in me, Father, and I am in you. And may they be in us so that the world will believe you sent me.
22 “I have given them the glory you gave me, so they may be one as we are one. 23 I am in them and you are in me. May they experience such perfect unity that the world will know that you sent me and that you love them as much as you love me. 

The Christ Hymn

Many view Philippians 2:6-11 as an early Christian hymn, telling about the nature of Christ, taken over and perhaps modified by Paul.

Colossians 3:16 NLT
16 Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts.

  • We are told, in scripture, to sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. 

Though he was God,

John 1:1-2 NLT
1 In the beginning the Word already existed.
The Word was with God,
and the Word was God.
2 He existed in the beginning with God. 

Colossians 1:15-20 NLT
15 Christ is the visible image of the invisible God.
He existed before anything was created and is supreme over all creation,
16 for through him God created everything
in the heavenly realms and on earth.
He made the things we can see
and the things we can’t see—
such as thrones, kingdoms, rulers, and authorities in the unseen world.
Everything was created through him and for him.
17 He existed before anything else,
and he holds all creation together.
18 Christ is also the head of the church,
which is his body.
He is the beginning,
supreme over all who rise from the dead.
So he is first in everything.
19 For God in all his fullness
was pleased to live in Christ,
20 and through him God reconciled
everything to himself.
He made peace with everything in heaven and on earth
by means of Christ’s blood on the cross.

  • The Son of God is God.
  • The Son of God has always been God.

Colossians 1:17
17 He existed before anything else,

John 17:24 NLT
24 Father, I want these whom you have given me to be with me where I am. Then they can see all the glory you gave me because you loved me even before the world began! 

he did not think of equality with God

Jesus is God.

John 10:30 NLT
30 The Father and I are one.”

as something to cling to.


Instead, he gave up his divine privileges;

  • Jesus did not stop being God. He gave up the privileges that were His because He is God.

2 Corinthians 8:9 NLT
You know the generous grace of our Lord Jesus Christ. Though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that by his poverty he could make you rich.

Example:

Matthew 26:52-54 NLT
52“Put away your sword,” Jesus told him. “Those who use the sword will die by the sword. 53Don’t you realize that I could ask my Father for thousands of angels to protect us, and he would send them instantly? 54But if I did, how would the Scriptures be fulfilled that describe what must happen now?” 

  • Christ gave up His right to manifest himself visibly as the God of all splendor and glory. 

The Jesus we will see in heaven will be different than the Jesus seen on earth. 

 he took the humble position of a slave

Matthew 20:28 NLT
28 For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

  • Jesus came to earth to serve, not to be served.

As a servant, Jesus was always submissive to the will of the Father.

 and was born as a human being.

Jesus is truly God and truly man.

John 1:14 NLT
14 So the Word became human and made his home among us. He was full of unfailing love and faithfulness. 

1 Timothy 3:16 NLT
16 Without question, this is the great mystery of our faith:
Christ was revealed in a human body
and vindicated by the Spirit.

  • Jesus was born as a human being. 

When he appeared in human form,

    he humbled himself in obedience to God
and died a criminal’s death on a cross.

Matthew 20:28 NLT (repeated)
28 For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

in obedience to God

  • It was God’s will that Jesus die for the sins of humanity.

Romans 5:8 NLT
But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.

1 John 4:9-10 NLT
God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. 10 This is real love—not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins.

Matthew 26:39 NLT
39 He went on a little farther and bowed with his face to the ground, praying, “My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taken away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”

John 10:17-18 NLT
17 “The Father loves me because I sacrifice my life so I may take it back again. 18 No one can take my life from me. I sacrifice it voluntarily. For I have the authority to lay it down when I want to and also to take it up again. For this is what my Father has commanded.”

Crucifixion was a cruel and humiliating punishment intended for criminals. 

Therefore, God elevated him to the place of highest honor
and gave him the name above all other names,

  • As a result of Christ’s humble obedience, God elevated Him to the place of highest honor.

Jesus is now in a position of supreme authority and power.

Matthew 28:18 NLT (After His resurrection)
18 Jesus came and told his disciples, “I have been given all authority in heaven and on earth. 

Acts 2:33-36 NLT
33 Now he is exalted to the place of highest honor in heaven, at God’s right hand. And the Father, as he had promised, gave him the Holy Spirit to pour out upon us, just as you see and hear today. …. 36 “So let everyone in Israel know for certain that God has made this Jesus, whom you crucified, to be both Lord and Messiah!”

10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,

1 Peter 3:22m NLT
22 Now Christ has gone to heaven. He is seated in the place of honor next to God, and all the angels and authorities and powers accept his authority.

Ephesians 1:9-10, 21 NLT
God has now revealed to us his mysterious will regarding Christ—which is to fulfill his own good plan. 10 And this is the plan: At the right time he will bring everything together under the authority of Christ—everything in heaven and on earth.
21 Now he is far above any ruler or authority or power or leader or anything else—not only in this world but also in the world to come.

  • Jesus is far above any ruler or authority or power or leader or anything else—not only in this world but also in the world to come. 

11 and every tongue declare that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.

God’s design is that all people should worship and serve Jesus as Lord.

  • Ultimately, everyone will acknowledge that Jesus is Lord, whether willingly or not.

 

Review:

Chapter 2:1-11
Live lives that are united in thought and purpose with other believers and dress yourselves in humility as you relate to one another.

Christ is the supreme example of humility and selfless concern for others.

David Anointed King of Judah

David Anointed King of Judah

Introduction:

Name the first three kings of Israel.

Details are important.

2 Timothy 3:16-17 NLT
16 All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. 17 God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work.

2 Timothy 2:15 NLT
15 Work hard so you can present yourself to God and receive his approval. Be a good worker, one who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly explains the word of truth.

Acts 17:11 NLT
11 And the people of Berea were more open-minded than those in Thessalonica, and they listened eagerly to Paul’s message. They searched the Scriptures day after day to see if Paul and Silas were teaching the truth.

Joshua 1:8 NLT
Study this Book of Instruction continually. Meditate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do.

The first three kings of Israel: Saul, Ishbosheth, and David.

2 Samuel 2:1-11 NLT
David Anointed King of Judah
2:1 After this, David asked the Lord, “Should I move back to one of the towns of Judah?”
“Yes,” the Lord replied.
Then David asked, “Which town should I go to?”
“To Hebron,” the Lord answered.
David’s two wives were Ahinoam from Jezreel and Abigail, the widow of Nabal from Carmel. So David and his wives and his men and their families all moved to Judah, and they settled in the villages near Hebron. Then the men of Judah came to David and anointed him king over the people of Judah.
When David heard that the men of Jabesh-gilead had buried Saul, he sent them this message: “May the Lord bless you for being so loyal to your master Saul and giving him a decent burial. May the Lord be loyal to you in return and reward you with his unfailing love! And I, too, will reward you for what you have done. Now that Saul is dead, I ask you to be my strong and loyal subjects like the people of Judah, who have anointed me as their new king.”

Ishbosheth Proclaimed King of Israel
But Abner son of Ner, the commander of Saul’s army, had already gone to Mahanaim with Saul’s son Ishbosheth.  There he proclaimed Ishbosheth king over Gilead, Jezreel, Ephraim, Benjamin, the land of the Ashurites, and all the rest of Israel.
10 Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, was forty years old when he became king, and he ruled from Mahanaim for two years. Meanwhile, the people of Judah remained loyal to David. 11 David made Hebron his capital, and he ruled as king of Judah for seven and a half years.

Examine the Scriptures

2 Samuel 2:1-11 NLT
David Anointed King of Judah

2:1 After this, David asked the Lord, 

David’s home base of Ziklag has been burned to the ground by the Amalekites.

Saul is no longer pursuing David.

David and his men were no longer fugitives.

  • Before making the decision to move back to Judah, David sought the Lord’s guidance. 

“Should I move back to one of the towns of Judah?”

David was from the tribe of Judah

  • David had many friends and contacts in Judah.

1 Samuel 30:26-31 NLT
26 When he arrived at Ziklag, David sent part of the plunder to the elders of Judah, who were his friends. “Here is a present for you, taken from the Lord’s enemies,” he said.
27 The gifts were sent to the people of the following towns David had visited: Bethel, Ramoth-negev, Jattir, 28 Aroer, Siphmoth, Eshtemoa, 29 Racal, the towns of the Jerahmeelites, the towns of the Kenites, 30 Hormah, Bor-ashan, Athach, 31 Hebron, and all the other places David and his men had visited. 

“Yes,” the Lord replied.

Then David asked, “Which town should I go to?”

David wanted a specific answer.

“To Hebron,” the Lord answered.

Hebron was an old, established, and important city in southern Judah.

Hebron was centrally located in Judah.

Abraham, Sarah, Isaac, Rebekah, Leah, and Jacob were all buried in the cave of Machpelah purchased by Abraham which is located in Hebron.

The people of the area were sympathetic toward David. 

David’s two wives were Ahinoam from Jezreel and Abigail, the widow of Nabal from Carmel.

Michal had been given to another man after David fled from Saul. (1 Samuel 25:44)

So David and his wives and his men and their families all moved to Judah, and they settled in the villages near Hebron. 

  • The Lord told David to move to the town of Hebron which was located in the center of Judah. 

Then the men of Judah came to David and anointed him king over the people of Judah.

Rather than seeking a relative of Saul who was from the tribe of Benjamin, the people of Judah chose one of their own, the hero David, to be their king.

Previously, God had chosen David to be the king.

1 Samuel 16 NLT
Samuel Anoints David as King
16:1 Now the Lord said to Samuel, “You have mourned long enough for Saul. I have rejected him as king of Israel, so fill your flask with olive oil and go to Bethlehem. Find a man named Jesse who lives there, for I have selected one of his sons to be my king.”
10 … all seven of Jesse’s sons were presented to Samuel. But Samuel said to Jesse, “The Lord has not chosen any of these.” 11 Then Samuel asked, “Are these all the sons you have?”
“There is still the youngest,” Jesse replied. “But he’s out in the fields watching the sheep and goats.”
“Send for him at once,” Samuel said. “We will not sit down to eat until he arrives.”
12 So Jesse sent for him. He was dark and handsome, with beautiful eyes.
And the Lord said, “This is the one; anoint him.”
13 So as David stood there among his brothers, Samuel took the flask of olive oil he had brought and anointed David with the oil. And the Spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon David from that day on. ….

David’s anointing by Samuel was done privately in the presence of David’s family.

This anointing was a public ceremony.

  • David was formally installed by oil-anointing as King over Judah.

Later, in 2 Samuel 5:3, David will be anointed a third time as king over the entire nation of Israel.

  • This move completely alienated David from the Philistines with whom he had previously taken refuge and made an alliance.

Most likely the tribe of Simeon was involved in this ceremony.

These two tribes had a history of working together.

Joshua 19:1 NLT
19:1 The second allotment of land went to the clans of the tribe of Simeon. Their homeland was surrounded by Judah’s territory.

Judges 1:3 NLT
The men of Judah said to their relatives from the tribe of Simeon, “Join with us to fight against the Canaanites living in the territory allotted to us. Then we will help you conquer your territory.” So the men of Simeon went with Judah. 

When David heard that the men of Jabesh-gilead had buried Saul, he sent them this message: “May the Lord bless you for being so loyal to your master Saul and giving him a decent burial. May the Lord be loyal to you in return and reward you with his unfailing love! And I, too, will reward you for what you have done. 

  • David is moved by the men of Jabesh’s loyalty to Saul and wants to reward them for what they have done.

Now that Saul is dead, I ask you to be my strong and loyal subjects like the people of Judah, who have anointed me as their new king.”

  • David asks the men of Jabesh-gilead to be his strong and loyal subjects.

David is presenting himself as Saul’s successor and wants to be their king.

This appeal for their support was ignored.

Ishbosheth Proclaimed King of Israel

But Abner son of Ner, the commander of Saul’s army (and Saul’s cousin), had already gone to Mahanaim with Saul’s son Ishbosheth (or Esh-baal).

Mahanaim was located east of the Jordan River. (Refer to a map)

Mahanaim was named by Jacob.

Genesis 32:1-2 NLT
32:1 As Jacob started on his way again, angels of God came to meet him. When Jacob saw them, he exclaimed, “This is God’s camp!” So he named the place Mahanaim.

  • Mahanaim was beyond the sphere of Philistine domination. 

 There he (Abner) proclaimed Ishbosheth king over Gilead, Jezreel, Ephraim, Benjamin, the land of the Ashurites, and all the rest of Israel.

Abner is attempting to continue Saul’s kingdom. He was not willing to follow the Lord’s anointed king.

Abner appears to be the power behind the throne.

Refer to the Twelve Tribes of Israel map.

  • Abner proclaimed Ishbosheth king over the northern tribes.
  • Note: At this point in time the Philistines controlled large sections of Israel.

1 Samuel 31:7 NLT
When the Israelites on the other side of the Jezreel Valley and beyond the Jordan saw that the Israelite army had fled and that Saul and his sons were dead, they abandoned their towns and fled. So the Philistines moved in and occupied their towns. 

The Philistines had slaughtered many of the soldiers of Israel on the slopes of Mount Gilboa.

1 Samuel 31 NLT
31:1 Now the Philistines attacked Israel, and the men of Israel fled before them. Many were slaughtered on the slopes of Mount Gilboa. 

The Philistine army was clearly superior to the Israeli army at this time.

Ishbosheth did not appear to have much support from the people of Israel and his reign was quite limited. 

10 Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, was forty years old when he became king, and he ruled from Mahanaim for two years.

Ishbosheth’s two year reign and David’s seven and a half years don’t seem to reconcile.

It appears that David was made king over all of Israel shortly after Ishbosheth’s death (2 Samuel 4 and 5).

It took Ishbosheth a number of years to be recognized as his father’s successor.

Apparently a period of 5 years occurred in which the Northern tribes were without a king.

The presence of the Philistines may have played a role in preventing Ishbosheth from gaining control of this northern territory.

  • Ishbosheth ruled from Mahanaim for two years. 

Meanwhile, the people of Judah remained loyal to David. 

11 David made Hebron his capital, and he ruled as king of Judah for seven and a half years.

During this period of time the twelve tribes had two kings.

  • Note: God’s plan was for David to be the king of Israel. (1 Samuel 16:1)

Have the Attitude of Christ

Have the Attitude of Christ

Introduction:

Philippians

Living the Christian Life

Chapter 2:1-11
Live lives that are united in thought and purpose with other believers and dress yourselves in humility as you relate to one another.

Verses 1-4 give us a foundation for living in unity with other believers.

Philippians 2:1-4 NLT
Have the Attitude of Christ
2:1 Is there any encouragement from belonging to Christ? Any comfort from his love? Any fellowship together in the Spirit? Are your hearts tender and compassionate? Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose.
Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.

Examine the scriptures:

Philippians 2:1-4 NLT
Have the Attitude of Christ

2:1 Is there any encouragement from belonging to Christ? (Belonging to Christ means to be saved.)  Any comfort from his love? Any fellowship together in the Spirit? Are your hearts tender and compassionate? 

Paul begins by asking “Is there any …”

These are rhetorical questions.

Paul knows that the answer to his questions (for believers) is “YES”.

We know that we can receive encouragement from belonging to Christ.

We know that we can be comforted by the love of Christ.

We know that we can have fellowship with other believers because of the Holy Spirit.

We know that God has given us tender and compassionate hearts.

Do we really understand what it means to be a child of God?

 

Four incentives.

Verse one could say:

Since you have encouragement from belonging to Christ. (We have been given an Advocate, Comforter, Encourager, or Counselor)

Since you have comfort from His love.

Since you have fellowship together in the Spirit.

Since your hearts are tender and compassionate.

All of this is being offered to us on a daily basis.

Then make me truly happy

“make my joy complete” NIV 

by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other,

“by being like-minded” NIV

A common purpose

Be one in purpose.

We are to use our different spiritual gifts in a cooperative way, focusing on God’s glory.

We all know that the body has many different parts. (1 Corinthians 12:12-31.)

Look at:
1 Corinthians 1:10 NLT
10 I appeal to you, dear brothers and sisters, by the authority of our Lord Jesus Christ, to live in harmony with each other. Let there be no divisions in the church. Rather, be of one mind, united in thought and purpose.

  • Let there be no divisions in the church. Rather, be of one mind, united in thought and purpose. 

Paul continues this theme through verse 4. 

loving one another,

John 13:34 NLT  (Maundy Thursday)
34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.  

  • Love one another. 

Mark 12:28-34 NLT
The Most Important Commandment
28 One of the teachers of religious law was standing there listening to the debate. He realized that Jesus had answered well, so he asked, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”
29 Jesus replied, “The most important commandment is this: ‘Listen, O Israel! The Lord our God is the one and only Lord. 30 And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.’ 31 The second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ No other commandment is greater than these.” 

and working together with one mind and purpose.

Be one in purpose. (Common goals.)

Paul is telling the Philippians that they need to live together with each other in harmony and love.

Romans 15:5 NLT
May God, who gives this patience and encouragement, help you live in complete harmony with each other, as is fitting for followers of Christ Jesus.

2 Corinthians 13:11 NLT
11 Dear brothers and sisters, I close my letter with these last words: Be joyful. Grow to maturity. Encourage each other. Live in harmony and peace. Then the God of love and peace will be with you.

  • All Christians should live together in harmony and love. 

Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. 

  • Don’t be selfish.

Concerned chiefly with your own personal profit or pleasure.

  • Self-centeredness is a mortal enemy of unity and harmony in the church.

Self-centeredness is a desire of our sinful nature.

Galatians 5:19-21 NLT
19 When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, 20 idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division21 envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these.  

Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.  

Romans 12:10 NLT
10 Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.

Ephesians 5:21 NLT
21 And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

1 Peter 5:5 NLT
… . And all of you, dress yourselves in humility as you relate to one another, for
“God opposes the proud
but gives grace to the humble.”

  • Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. 

Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.

Galatians 5:26 NLT
26 Let us not become conceited, or provoke one another, or be jealous of one another.

1 Corinthians 10:24 NLT
24 Don’t be concerned for your own good but for the good of others. 

Everyone naturally looks out for his or her own interests.  

  • The challenge here is for us to look out for the interests of others in the same way we look out for our own interests. 

This can only be accomplished when the Holy Spirit is active in our lives. Refer back to verse 1.

Scripture tells us that we have the Holy Spirit living in us.

1 Corinthians 6:19 NLT
19 Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God?

Galatians 5:16 NLT
16 So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves. 

Psalm 143:10 NLT
10 Teach me to do your will,
for you are my God.
May your gracious Spirit lead me forward
on a firm footing.

Galatians 5:22-23 NLT
22 But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things! 

Ephesians 3:16 NLT
16 I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. 

  • Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. 
  • Let the Holy Spirit guide your lives.